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Wednesday, April 15, 2015

Bullying...Fight it! Beat it! Believe you are BEAUTIFUL!!

Fight it! Beat it! Believe you are BEAUTIFUL!!


Have you ever been bullied?  How did it make you feel?  Have you ever bullied someone else?  These are valid questions and sometimes it can be hard to admit that we did something wrong.  I'm not really sure of the exact statistics for bullying however I do know that it's not right.  No one has the right to be bullied.  Cyber bullying has become a thing these days with the social medias like youtube, facebook, twitter and more.  And you wouldn't think that bullying over the internet would hurt people's feelings but it really does.  So how do you overcome it?  In my opinion it's basically 3 things.  One:  taking those negative comments that people have said about you, and making them positive.  If someone called you ugly...look yourself in the mirror and say "no I'm not ugly, I'm beautiful."  Say that every day of every minute if you have you to, but believe it because you are beautiful.  So if someone called you "stupid," say "No I'm smart." Turn that negative into a positive because positives outweigh the negatives.  Two...Be confident in who you are...if you are confident with who you are and know that it's ok to be you, then eventually people will see that, and if they don't then that is their loss.  And last but not least, be who you are and want to be.  If you be who you are and who you want to be, then no one can take that away from you.  No one can take something that they have no control over.  If you let them have control, they will run all over you, but if you take control and don't give them that upper hand, then you will be the person you want to be. And last tell an adult so they can help before it gets more serious than it is. Bullying is wrong and it can be harmful if gone too far, not just to the bully but also to you.

Any topic you would like me to discuss leave a comment or email me at lilvina25@gmail.com. 
Recap:
1)Turn that negative into a positive
2)Be confident in who you are 
3)Be who you are and want to be
4) Tell an adult that you trust
And most of all: BELIEVE YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL/ HANDSOME

Questions to answer:
Have you ever been bullied?  How did it make you feel?  Have you ever bullied someone else?  Share your story in the comments :)