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Saturday, October 17, 2015

Activities my 2 year old is loving right now

Hey my sweet friends.  So I'm sharing today what activities and my 2 year old is enjoying.  Hope you love them.
So something before we get into this...I DO NOT POST ON WEDNESDAYS...this is because Wednesdays are family days.  We usually go to my parent's house that day, and stay all day, spending time with them and my siblings...so if you don't see one on that day, that is why.  I post when I have time...with a 2 year old running around, and things I need to do....I don't have a set schedule.  I am also a college student as well...so if I don't post, that is why.
What I didn't add in here were books.  He loves books and coloring and playing with playdoh....so here are more activities he loves.
TOYS AND ACTIVITIES MY 2 YEAR OLD IS ENJOYING
Liam loves his Mickey Mouse Puzzles
Liam loves his Mickey Mouse Puzzles
He loves to play with his football, baseball, or any type of sports toy
He loves to play with his football, baseball, or any type of sports toy
This is a toy that he got a year ago, when he first started therapy, he loved it ever since
This is a toy that he got a year ago, when he first started therapy, he loved it ever since
He loves his cars, trucks and trains
He loves his cars, trucks and trains

Tuesday, October 13, 2015

Never Lose Who You Really Are Inside

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Hey my sweet friends.  So I got inspired to write this post from a show that I love..."House Of DVF".  Now if you don't know what that is it's just a fashion show where Diane Von Furtenberg tries to find the next grand ambassador "(Diane Von Furstenberg‘s new show, House of DVF, will feature young contestants competing for the once-in-a-lifetime chance to work closely with the iconic designer and travel the world as a “DVF girl.” (LINK AT THE BOTTOM) This is an awesome show and if you want to read more about it, just look up her website, and I will leave another website below that talks more about it.  Anyway back to the blog post...I watched last night's episode and she told a girl something that I really want to address today and that is-Diane quotes "Don't ever lose yourself.  Always make sure you can smile at your shadow, wink at yourself in the mirror and say Hi."  I absolutely loved that.  Lately I feel like I have been so consumed in dealing with not being friends with a former friend, that I have let my true inner self slip away.  The things that make me (Me) were slipping away.  So recently I have been making time for myself every day, whether that is writing on this blog, playing my piano; learning a new song, playing with my son, reading, or writing in my "evening pages," I have just been getting back to what I lost about myself.true to yourself
I have learned that by being myself, I can truly be happy because I know who I am, and I needed to be reminded of who I was, so I could be happy in this present time.  I have learned that instead of living in the past, I want to live in the NOW, and really embrace life NOW. When you lose yourself, it's really sad and a lot of the times, it;s hard to get it back, but when you just realize that what ever it is that has made your inner self slip away, whatever it is that has just created you to be someone you are not happy with it or someone you just don't recognize anymore, just remember that you can get it back if you really want to; it's not impossible.  But if there is anything I have learned about finding myself, which I will do a complete blog post about, is that you never want to lose who you are.  You always want to stay true to yourself, whether that's what you wear, or your personality, or whatever, you always want to stay true to who you are.  So be amazing, do something that makes you happy today, inspire others and STAY TRUE TO WHO YOU ARE.  That's all for today, I hope that you got something out of this post and if some of you don't know, I have officially moved to wordpress, so I will leave this link in the information below.  Always remember to comment below, I love to read your comments, share and follow me on my social media websites :)
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Sources used:
http://www.dvf.com/house-of-dvf
http://hollywoodlife.com/2014/09/08/dvf-project-diane-von-furstenberg-e-reality-show-preview/
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Saturday, October 10, 2015

Letting Go of What is Weighing You Down


Note before reading...original post is from wordpress on October 9, 2015



Hello my sweet friends.  Welcome to my new set up on wordpress.  This is my first time using this, so I'm just learning everything.  I hope you all like these posts as much as I do.  Today's post is going to be about letting go of what is weighing you down.  So for the past couple of years, I have been dealing with something personal and it was really hurting me inside.  I was really hurt and it was affecting my life because I just could not understand why it happened, and if things could get back to the way they were.  But the other day, I decided that it was time to let it go. I talked to this person about what I was thinking, and it just made me feel better that I didn't keep it in anymore. What I learned from this was that it's ok to let things go, especially if they are affecting  your life and not making you happy.  If something is just making you unhappy, and you just don't feel like yourself, then maybe it's time to think about it, evaluate it and decide whether  or not it's time to let it go, so that you can be the person you want to be.  I can tell you that I feel alot better knowing that things will be ok, and that sometimes things are not meant to last.  I feel like a weight has been lifted off of my shoulders and I can finally feel free and alive again; and that's a great feeling. I hope that you all get some inspiration from this post and think about what is making you unhappy and see if it's time you let it go; out of your life...so that you can create a bran new happy life for yourself because everyone deserves to be happy.  Til next time....Vina <3
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  Is there something that is weighing you down that you need to let go?  Answer in the comments below
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Tuesday, October 6, 2015

My fall/winter Comfort Food

What is your fall/winter comfort food?  What is it that you crave or makes you remember something?  Well mine is oatmeal.  I love oatmeal.  It takes me back to childhood when my dad would make us oatmeal when it was really cold outside.  We would eat it for breakfast before we went to school that way our belly's were full, and we were warm on the inside atleast lol.  This week has been a long week, full of wiping noses from a sick child, to feeling sick myself.  Plus my toddler loves giving me his colds...he just loves to share lol  I had oatmeal this morning because I really wanted comfort food, and man did it hit the spot.  Oatmeal and a nice cup of hot tea when you are not feeling the greatest is just a blessing lol.  So of course I had to take a picture of it.


I normally put apples in my oatmeal, but I didn't have any so I just put maple syrup in it and lots of cinnamon and it tasted so good.


Question of the day:
What is your comfort food in the fall and winter seasons?  Leave your answers in the comments below and have a fabulous day :)

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Wednesday, September 30, 2015

Strive for Progress Not for Perfection + plus what organizational projects I have been working on


Hello my sweet friends. So for the blog post today it's the organization projects I have been working on.  I love when things are organized, just because my husband and I can find things alot easier and quicker. So before we begin, I found a quote on (Pinterest) that I love and want to share with you.  If you read it, it says "STRIVE FOR PROGRESS NOT FOR PERFECTION."  This quote is very meaningful because we don't want things to be perfect, at least I don't. I like a little mess here and there; it shows that I'm human and I have a toddler running around lol; and we all know that when you have a toddler, your house can go from 100% clean, to it looking like a tornado hit the inside of your house and missed the rest of the town lol. This can also go for any part of your life.  You want to strive for progress that way you know that you are getting somewhere and you are understanding where you are and where you want to be and you may even be happy...but if you strive for perfection, I'm afraid you may be disappointed, because nothing will ever be completely perfect...atleast not in this life.  So there you have...my meaning of this quote...and here are some pictures of what I have been organizing this week. :)




This is when you first go up stairs.  This was just blank and I wanted something in the corner so I just put a white table that I had, put some photos, a little lantern we got in South Dakota, some flowers and a mirror on it.  I then put our workout equipment underneath it in a little black basket, put some extra stuff we didn't really need right away right next to it, and then my purple yoga mat leaning on the side of it.  I then took some picture frames of my family that we have and hung them up over the stand.  I love it and it makes the house feel cozier and more inviting.


Same picture, different angle

This is our movie bookshelf. My movies are on the very top and my husband's movies are on the three shelves that were left.

This is our book and game shelf.  First I went ahead and put my son's books that I want to keep nice on the far right, then I put some of our books on the middle and the left.  The next shelf down has all my husband's xbox and xbox one games, and the shelf underneath that has my husbands Playstation 1,2, and 3 games, WII and WII U games and game-cube games.  The shelves under that one has the rest of our books...including the books I used for reference when I was pregnant, my Christian books and bibles, just reading books of all kinds and of course our self help books I just like to use as a reference..  This all took me about an hour or so to do both shelves and now my husband can find all of his games and I can find all of my books. And these are not all of my books, I have more in my bedroom, and my son has some in his room that he is allowed to have because he can't destroy them lol.

That's it for now, hope you all had some inspiration, and in the comments below...answer this question....

Question to answer:
   WHAT AREA IN YOUR LIFE DO YOU NEED TO STRIVE FOR PROGRESS AND NOT FOR PERFECTION?



Wednesday, September 23, 2015

Why does race matter that much?

Hello my sweet friends and welcome back to another post.  I get these comments all the time about race.  My husband is white, I am black and my son is mixed (white and black) and I always get questions like: why is your son a different color than you?  Why is your husband white? Why are you black?  and more and I've been getting these questions a lot lately.  We live in a very racial society where people put a lot of emphasis on race and the color of your skin, but why?  Why does it matter what color you are?  Why does it matter who you marry and what color they are?  I have no idea.  We are raising my kid to understand that yes he is different but he's unique in his own way and that is alright.  He can't talk fluently yet so I can't just ask him what color he thinks he is...but that is ok.  Children don't see color, they just see people who they can play with. I think that we should all see people as people and not people as a color.  God made everyone different and it shouldn't matter what color you are.  You are loved and beautiful and amazing and that's all there is to it. People need to stop worrying so much about color and start being ok with the way that people are made.  You can not change your color, even though people have tried...you can only accept it and realize that it's ok to be different and unique.


This is when Liam was a baby because I don't have a photo of the three of us now since he is two years old.

Hope you all enjoyed this post.  Comment down below if you think color/race matters.

Wednesday, September 16, 2015

5 tips to help a child who has a speech delay

Hello my sweet friends, and welcome back to another Chat With Vina blog post. Today's post is going to be about how to help a child who has a speech delay, and 5 tips that I have used that has helped for my child. Let's get started....


















These are photos that I took of him yesterday.

Background:
     My 2 year old has a speech delay.  We discovered it when he was about 1 years old, he wasn't speaking like a lot of the other children his age...now may I remind you that our child does things when he is ready, however speech is something all children need to develop so when they get into school, they can communicate.  Anyway when the doctor told us that he should be talking a little bit, that sort of concerned me just a little. The doctor told us some things we can try to help him talk and after about a year...he's doing really well.  These are my tips on how to help a child who has a speech delay, learn to talk more.


1) Let them know it's ok to speak and mess up
       -Little kids need to understand that it's ok if they talk and don't quite get the right word or don't say it properly.  This is how they learn to say the word and understand what it means.

2) Read and let them look at books with you
      -Reading to them, can really help them learn how to talk.  It can teach them that it's ok to talk, and that reading is fun.  Also if you let them look at the book, then not only can you help them know what's in the book, but also you can spend time with them, and teach them along the way.  One of my son's favorite things to do is to look at his books.  He points things out, and I tell him what they are, that way he's learning what the objects are, but  also he's having fun.

3) Talk to them
       -Always talk to your kids.  They learn so much just by hearing what you say.  Now again remember that you have to watch what you say around them, because once they do talk, they will say whatever you say...but it's also a great way for them to learn how to talk to someone, how to talk to you, and just how to speak in general.

4) Repeat everything
        -kids are not perfect speakers, they are just learning how to speak, so if you repeat things over and over to them, they will eventually put it all together.

5) Make it fun
        -Always make learning fun.  If you want your child to say the word "ball," get a ball, and throw it to them, or teach them to play catch or just play with them and every time you use a ball, say "ball."  They will get it and when they do, not only will you be a proud parent, but you will also have a very proud child.

Those are 5 tips that have helped us..hope they help you. :)

NOTE: 
Now I also keep flash cards with words that he knows, and go over them with him, and I also keep a piece of paper that has every word or phrase that he has learned, and again I go over them with him every day.  In January he knew 2 words, now it's September and he knows 75-90 words including phrases and he knows where all his body parts.  So keep it fun, let them learn and enjoy the years you have with them because they grow up fast. If they are having too much trouble, talk to their doctor and get their advice, they may ask that you have a speech therapist come in, which is what we do for our son, and by us teaching him and working with him, and the therapist coming in once a week to work with him, he has learned so much.

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